I have a quote in my notes: “It’s your turn to be the main character of your story.”
I’ve held onto this for a while – being the main character of my story.
For me, it speaks to the danger of constantly putting everything and everyone else before myself. My story has often been more about what I can do for others.
Hearing about “main character syndrome” recently made me question this quote. I felt immediately uncomfortable.
The context was about power dynamics – leaders more interested in their own rise than in vulnerable communities.
But my aspiration is different. It’s not about elevating myself above others but finally giving myself the same care and attention I’ve always reserved for everyone else.
The distinction is crucial: my story isn’t about being more important but about being equally important.
The notion that anyone’s story matters more than another’s must be called out.
My goal is to be present in my own narrative and not overshadow anyone else’s.
